The spare part not ...

two widows and a bachelor girl ... my sister does not like to be called a spinster ... or two widows and a couple up North ... joining the widowhood is an all embracing mischievous time. There are many of us ...

a widowed Aunt at 73 zip-wiring in Canada ... another widow is now doing things her hubby didn't like ... we have all come together at various times. We have all done new things we might not otherwise have done as well. There is a freedom of spirit in the solace and grief.. it is an amazing time in parts ...  

for me I am the young one in the main, and so too am alone in those of us whose kids have flown ... it is sad, though bittersweet... the liken to teenage years again ... though more fun with the wisdom and for me the child like approach too after atypical times...

and the freedom absolutely no-one can at times not knows what I get up to ....!!!  

Life finishing cycles

to another one ... this time being embraced by the various families of my daughters new life in another part of the country. And what my late hubby is missing... he would be in his element ...

This is how it was on moving here, and ironic today, one day long ago now,  I shifted from Cornwall to London ... a lot of plans this week fallen into place of what I be doing in both Cheshire and Cornwall ... time with a buddy group, on log duty, q making mince pies and mulled wine.. and plenty of assistance in sister hand out of action from an op and walks again!